Decisions!!!

229 days! And we are still waffling on the type of dinner, guest list, etc. etc. We'd change the venue too if we didn't have the magnets printed up. Holy Moly. The thing is - we want our friends and family to be there for a dinner, a party, a memory and at the end, all our incredible marvellously talented musicians to gather and play music. We aren't committed to a served meal, but we couldn't figure out what we might like. Last night, on the way home from S.L-W and D.'s house, we think we may have made a decision - note the certainty. We think that we will have a buffet - barbecued shish kebabs, fresh salads, scallopped potatoes, yummy stuff for the vegetarians, etc. That will involve people lining up and possibly spilling, but we think it will be wonderful. We should also check in with the owner of the venue and see if she might be ready for us to sign a contract ... Halloween tonight. I was a nurse at work, but a humbug at home and turned the lights off and blocked the stairs. Turns out Twinkie is a Halloween nut and I looked at her facebook pictures from back in the day pre-Cupcake and she sure is/was a Halloween nut. So next year, no blocking the stairs - I will dress up like a drag king and decorate. And I will be happy doing it. Have to go to the Martha Stewart site we signed up for and figure out how incredibly deliquent we truly are at planning the shindig. But one thing remains, every single day I am so grateful to be so blessed with a love like the one I share with Twinkie. Shishkebabs or hotdogs, I am the luckiest woman in the world to hold her hand and heart. Happy Halloween.